We all have done it at one time or another. Grabbed that delicious tub of chocolate Haagen Dazs, drinking, smoking or endlessly scrolling social media to help us unwind and forget about things.
Oh, how we humans can love those buzzes (alcohol, dopamine, etc.) especially at the end of the day when we’ve had enough.
The desire to escape is a very common and normal mechanism we use to pull ourselves into balance. I know I’ve been there many times before. With 4 boys under the age of 8, running my own company, and having my own personal development coach – life can still get challenging and exhausting at times. At the end of the day there’s nothing I want to do more than unplug and stop thinking for a bit.
A little escaping from time to time can be good for you, but even if don’t in a constructive way escaping every day is a clear sign that:
Consistent patterns of escaping can lead to:
What is the solution to shift out of patterns of consistent escaping?
So, with the holidays upon us and all that comes with that, maybe now is the time to make a decision to enjoy yourself regardless of what you’re doing. Any top life coach would advise you to enjoy that holiday meal, enjoy that family that you love and enjoy the relaxation time that you’ve earned.
What you’ll find is that the more presence you bring into your relaxation the less you’ll be compelled to escape with food or other drugs. And the less food and drugs you put in your body, the better you’re going to feel. And the more engaged you are, the more you’ll going to enjoy life more. And being more engaged in life is going to pull you into a greater alignment, increase your capacity, increase your potential and allow life’s magical wonder to flow through you with more ease than ever before. Personal growth coach es can help with this.
As one of the best life coaches in the world would day, life is too short and you’re too amazing to let a small pattern of escapism diminish the amazing life you’ve created.
Reach out if you need it, I’m here to help